Wednesday, September 30, 2015

My First Wrestling Session

The truth is I have always had an urge to be wrestled to the ground and pinned by a beautiful woman but never acted on those fantasies. There is something erotic about having a woman wrap her legs or
arms around my neck or body and squeeze until I can't breathe or see stars. There are plenty of women who work out and others who have learned how to do just that but they are difficult to find, or so I thought.

Just for the hell of it, one day about a month ago, I decided to post an ad in the Sacramento craigslist. Here is the ad:

Looking for attractive and fit woman 18-30 to place me in wrestling holds once or twice a month. No experience necessary. Email pic and contact info if interested in this unique gig.

Safe, clean, privacy guaranteed and fun! $100/hr.

After publishing the ad, I pretty much forgot about it. I honestly never really believed anyone would actually respond to something that probably seemed pretty weird. But after about a week, I suddenly received a response from someone asking me for more details. She included her pic and wow was she hot looking!

Jennifer Frantz
Once I explained plainly that all it involved was me showing her holds, then having her place me in those holds and finally me struggling to break free, she seemed really interested. Just reading her response made my heart skip a few beats.

We originally scheduled a meeting at my place on a Sunday morning at 10 AM. I could barely sleep the few days leading up to the date. The thought of all this actually happening after years of thinking and fantasizing about it made me lose my appetite and much needed rest. To prepare, I printed out pictures of various wrestling holds with the intention of going through as many as possible during the 1 hour time frame.

The big day arrived. I prepared the wrestling mats and was all set. I even took another shower in the morning just to make sure I smelled okay for her. 10 AM came and went. I began to feel dejected that after all this I was being stood up. After about 1/2 hour, I texted her and she apologized for forgetting our meeting. We then set up another date for the following Friday morning.

Once again, everything was all set. This time she arrived - a little late because she got lost but no problem. Jennifer was pretty tall, maybe 5' 7" and her arms and legs were good size as well. She claimed it was because she got fat but it didn't look like fat to me. She challenged me to squeeze her bicep. It was pretty hard. But what struck me was how sweet and friendly she was. I was really hoping she would trust me and after a short time, she seemed just fine.

After some introduction to basic wrestling hold techniques, I started showing her the holds. I felt so nervous being with her because I had never done something like this before. But after a while, she really got into it and began doing them on me. There were a few holds where I got a little scared because I couldn't get out of the hold and she was starting to squeeze pretty hard. There is something about being completely helpless and at the mercy of someone of the opposite sex that is dangerous and erotic at the same time. Her legs were pretty thick and once she was able to lock them around my neck, I knew I wouldn't be able to break free.

The whole experience was so enjoyable for me and she liked it as well. We agreed to meet again in a couple of weeks.

Tuesday, September 29, 2015

The Business Partnership That Fell Apart

I probably should have posted something last year around this time about my ongoing involvement with Custom Development. So before I begin relating this saga, I should fill in a few historical blank spots. On a sunny morning in May, I agreed to meet Dino at the Denny's on Sunrise Blvd near CFF. Yes, the same gym where I encountered the young woman wearing grandma perfume. Anyways, the meeting was an opportunity to hear Dino and his old friend, Joe Sandino offer up a proposal to become partners in a relaunch of Custom Development. You see, up until that point, Dino and I had been operating CDC in survival mode, with both of us working out of our homes. I handled the accounting while Dino pounded the pavement looking for morsels of work to do. It was enough to get by but by last year, the economy had improved, housing prices were going up and things in general were looking pretty good for the home improvement industry. Just getting by wasn't good enough and I was up to moving on to something better. Over a breakfast of eggs and countless cups of coffee, the idea for a fully operational version of CDC began to take shape. Both Dino and Joe had gone through their own respective personal bankruptcies and stellar credit was not their forte. I, on the other hand, while sometimes scraping close to the bottom in my personal finances, always made sure that my bills were paid, giving me something valuable that they didn't have - a good FICO score.

The plan was for Dino and Joe to provide the experience and some initial start up costs and I would help get the company setup with vendors on my good credit. I was a little hesitant at first but I had known Dino long enough to know that the likelihood of me being left high and dry was pretty slim. Joe, on the other hand was an unknown. Dino introduced me to Joe and explained their connection. Joe owned a company called Weatherite which focused on residential window replacement. The crash of 2008 wasn't very kind to the home improvement industry and Weatherite came crashing to the ground. But 5 years had past and it was time to jump in the pool again.

Back to our meeting: Joe came prepared with his job profit and expense ratios. Jobs sold around 3X the cost and after deducting all direct expenses including commissions of 10% and lead fees of 16%, there should be about 24% left. Admin costs take away another 10% so by Joe's calculation, each job should net something like 12 - 14%. The idea was to divvy up this remaining amount as profit sharing with Joe and Dino splitting 80 and me taking the remaining 20. Sounds pretty good. According to Joe, anything over a hundred thousand a month would be gravy. After the meeting ended and my stomach couldn't hold one more sip of coffee, I agreed to go home and think about it.

The truth was I wasn't making much doing little piddly accounting work for Dino so I figured that nothing ventured, nothing gained would doom me to a boring existence and I was ready for a change. We rented an office/warehouse space in a seedy section of North Highlands on the cheap. I would have preferred something close, like that little space on Pyrites Way that Dino and I worked in for a little over a year beginning in 2009. But Gold River rental rates are a few notches above North Highlands and we were starting on a shoe-string budget.

At first things went pretty well. Joe seemed knowledgeable at least when it came to bathrooms. He brought over his crew consisting of Vasile and Nikolay. We gradually increased our volume. Joe's main job was to oversee the lead generation aspect of the company and insisted on receiving his fee no matter his department was productive or not. This began to place a strain on our arrangement since there were times that a job was a real loser and everyone else sacrificed in response except for Joe.

As for me, I handled the accounting like always and tried to save some cash for emergencies by transferring some funds into a savings account. Joe interpreted it as me hiding money from him which was really stupid and paranoid of him.

Looking back at this time period, that paranoia no longer seemed too out of character. As a general rule, I avoid politics, especially people with strong conservative views simply because they tend to be very difficult people to reason with. Joe began emailing me stuff about Obama - the typical crude, stuff you might expect from an Obama hater, i.e. communist, born in Kenya, socialist, etc. At one point, I was talking with him and he showed me an email on his computer and asserted that Obama was actually the devil. WTF? This is coming from someone who I assumed was intelligent, graduating from college with a degree in chemistry.

From that point on, I began to suspect Joe had a few screws loose and when he accused me and Dino of hiding money, the pieces began to fit together.

Finally, one day in April, 2014. I received an email from Joe saying that he wasn't coming in for the Monday meeting we usually had. In his long diatribe, he once again accused me and Dino of deceit and hiding money, both complete lies. In any case, the next day I walked into the office and it was nearly completely empty. Over the weekend, he had cleaned us out. To top it off, in his email, he demanded $10,000 as a settlement for outstanding amounts owed. After analyzing his ledger, Dino and I decided to pay him what he wanted since it turned out to be quite a bit less than what what was actually owed after all the jobs went through.

What an ordeal! I am so glad he is gone. He really was quite an asshole and since he left the company has been doing quite well without him.


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